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Adventure and Fear Part 2: Virtual Non- Reality

Firstly -Thank you so much for those of you who took the time to respond to my last message.  It really means a lot to me! XO Online Dating. When I was first allowed to date, the dating pool was very small.  A small town and a smaller high school.  Everyone knew everyone and most of their business.  You saw them “in town”, at school, or a party.  People flirted and hooked up and often that hookup became the boyfriend/girlfriend.  Times have changed. Really changed.  Fear of Missing Out (FOMO if you will) comes in to play so much more.  Meanwhile, online dating also becomes a vocabulary lesson.  Polyamory, pansexual, bisexual, nonbinary, ethical non-monogamy, primary, sub, dom, vanilla, bigender, demiboy, demigirl... I could go on (actually, most of the time I have to ask someone what something means) but you get the point.  Then there are the other terms you will experience, catfishing, ghosting, benching, submarining, zombie-ing, breadcrumbing, and I’m sure I’m missing some.